Year of Thanks — 2012
The personal project this year has taken on a bit of a different flavor. It started with a conversation with Kira in bed. We're both turning 40 this year and she's already got a plan to ride her bike from Portland to Napa in the spring, so she's been training for months.
My usual birthday event is as follows: plan for 2-3 movies, alone; eat crap, regret it; return home for birthday dinner of Manwiches and tater tots with my wife and fantastic children. That's right, it's the dream birthday of a 4th grader.
This year, maybe influenced by Kira's grandiosity, I started thinking about how to celebrate my own big day a little differently. I thought about shoehorning in a fourth movie. I thought about cajun tater tots. Those were nice, but they didn't really strike the right chord.
I believe that I am who I am because of the grace, kindness, criticism, and expertise of those around me. I say that a lot. To people. About other people. And therein lies the problem—living with gratitude is nothing if not expressed directly, personally, and immediately.
This year, it's time to make good. So, I'm taking the year to collect the most important relationships in my life the best way I know how—in photos—and use the opportunity to share my thanks for the role each individual has served in my life; as a mentor, teacher, friend, client, or family. My goal is to bring closeness, to rekindle some old relationships and launch a few new ones. I can only hope that by highlighting the impact that so many people have had on me, I can do so similarly for those in my own sphere.
I've started a running list of characters in the sidebar on the right. The names listed are folks that I've managed to connect with so far, but the list is by no means finished. I kicked off this journey with a 4,500 mile trip around the west on August 27. Here's hoping for many more thanks, and a boatload of photos by this time next year.